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I have been agonizing about the exact same choice and feelings for the last few years - thank you for sharing ❤️

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Ohhh how I loved this post 🧡 Kev and I sometimes chat about what we might be doing in that moment if we didn’t have a kid. It’s an interesting exercise, because it’s like .. trying to imagine an impossible present based on memories, which I’m sure are flawed or filtered somehow! In this regard, the only fork in our road is behind us; no plans for a second kid :)

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Loved this read 🥰 it reminded me of the book The Midnight Library which explores precisely this topic of different lives. I like how you realised you were looking at it from regret. Thanks for sharing it!

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